52 quarter: pressure release (1)
anyhow, in love fail, our physical and mental suffering is inevitable, love many deep, you will hurt more deep. First is protest separation and tried to restore the old love, then thoroughly give up, clap on the dust, the minutemen, once again, to love.
series 8 pressure release
stop hurried pace, find a quiet the colony of
inner peace is the real peace!
this world is too noisy, too noise. Whenever I hear the voice of the noisy, let I was frightened, and wanted to escape, desperate to find a quiet spirit colony. Sometimes I even heard the bell ringing phone, the heart will shiver.
not I is withdrawn reserved, but I am too eager to peace. I’m afraid the cellular phone bell ring ring out, dislike the pursuit of others. & # 8221; Where are you & # 8221; Three words always let me feel fear, is like being followed a Outdoor First Aid kind, make people nervous.
supermarkets, department stores, bookstores, bus and subway…… There is no place quiet. As long as a on the phone, and I was exposed to the whereabouts of……. Finally, I began to hate this no free city.
social blatant mess, don’t know where have let me peace of the pure land. I feel very tired, and then can’t get rid of.
a lot of people every day in the pursuit of happiness, but not happy every day. However, what is happiness? The source of happiness should be state of mind, that is the inner peace, peace of mind, just have a variety of happy. It is hard to imagine that, a bitterness, stressed all day long, a grumble, aggrieved person, a for empathetic, tossing and turning, steep profits, thinking you have lost people, life and how much joy.
so wise man in pursuit of the life, the first is the pursuit of self heart livre DE ma mere peace. This is a healthy attitude to life. A let me admire friend, realizing the heart tranquil of mind and # 8221; Road & # 8221; , try to keep mentality and, flat ning, also keep the life in the poor fun.
an the friend’s house the top toilet wall leakage, constantly to drop water, speak on principle, should be the responsibility of the neighbors upstairs, but somebody else a listen to the upstairs to pay someone to repair, then faltered in the very generous. Actually my friend income is not high, but he understood the neighbors than his life still strapped, then offered to repair a half out. Problem solved quickly, we live together peacefully, it is also a good neighbor.
some say he silly, clearly shouldn’t be out money out. But he did not think so, after all, is their beneficiaries, if underlying, inevitable were involved in a long dispute and annoyed, no peace, even with a little buy a peaceful, relaxed.
in the modern society, we each have to face and bear all kinds of pressure. How much income, position, living conditions, and the working environment, often become the measure of whether a person successful, if realized the life value standard, become brothers and sisters, and relatives and friends, classmates and colleagues of the evaluation standard. The evaluation standard, although some biased, but also reflect a kind of phenomenon.
in order to position the promotion, we want to work hard, and apple polishing; In order to obtain more income, we sometimes have to hide himself, even against his will to do some things. At the same time, we also inherit all kinds of pressure, for example, the pressure of the sick, the choice of pressure. So, sometimes we bemoan & # 8221; I’m so wasted & # 8221; “Us.it & # 8221;, sometimes complain of social injustice, play hard, sometimes depressed lost myself sometimes stray exhaustion of body and mind. We are alone, but the heart is full of anxiety and upset.
53 quarter: pressure release (2)
remember when I was relatively poor, not have too much time, I like lively, because my heart is peaceful. But, when I have more time, I inner peace are lesser. Because I always worry about losing, worried about their own have not more.
actually, most of the time, we need to stop, look for a quiet place a good to think, deeply to the body, the lost will gently let go, and don’t want to give up of give up endure insist, and need to make the choice is: what to put, what should accept!
a few years ago, I got to know a good friend of buddhist studies, from his there, I read a lot of Buddha language, also discovered a lot of zen, the eminent monks and teachers are often retreats, most of the time is in thinking and grasped, for inner peace. See through life’s eminent monks have need time to think and grasped, how much more secular world we are?
everyone wants to live a happy life, and happiness is just a feeling that has nothing to do with rich and poor, connected with the heart.
in “the analects”, Confucius told his students how to find the happiness in life. This kind of thought passed down, in history many famous literati poets have had a huge influence.
zi gong had asked the teacher: & # 8221; Poor and no Chan, rich and no arrogant, for example? & # 8221; If a person is very mean, but he is not flattering to the rich; A man is rich, but he does not bullying arrogance. What about this?
the teacher said, “this is very good, but not enough. There is a higher boundary, called the & # 8221; Poor but joy, the rich and the HaoLi also & # 8221; .
higher boundary is, a man not only by the content with, not only does not delight in one, and his heart there is a clear and joy. This kind of joy will not be poor life have stripped him not because of riches and honour and arrogant excessive, he is still happy rich, well-mannered of a gentleman.
so, sometimes, we should stop hurried pace, let the thought precipitation, the clear thoughts and left will be negative tired we walking. You will find that, in fact, suspended future will let us go faster and more relaxed, can let our goal more clearly.
adaptability is stronger, the smaller the psychological pressure
rest is for walking further!
in this competitive society, and I am like a head not tired of the old cow, behind pull with heavy the plow, buried himself in the plow, and can’t have any reckless. A little stopped to rest, will was behind the whip blows.
whip from the fact that my heart. I’m afraid of being social knocked out, be afraid because of his snub and lost the life now, so I have been suffering. The time go to school, my biggest worry is learning pressure; After work, my biggest worry is work pressure.
I should keep than with people, more than others, so I bear the unbearable pressure, really worry about which one day can collapse. & # 8221; One live how so tired? & # 8221; This is the voice of my heart. Don’t for a lifetime that so nervous to?
modern social fast changing, the pace of life increasingly faster, this will give the workplace of choice-making young man brought unprecedented pressure. To the expectations for the future, the work of the persistent, to oneself is almost perfect asks… No not bothering them, so that a lot of people are in great pressure vortex, and can’t from pull out.
54 quarter: pressure release (3)
I often can hear the relatives and friends around a such complain: & # 8221; Competition is too fierce, working pressure is too large, sometimes even beyond the limits of my & # 8221; “I work hard, but no return, leading to longly want me to try a little harder & # 8221;” There is competition between colleagues, my colleagues and I always make not the relationship, not every year on the unit advanced workers & # 8221; “I’m tired of the original that job, want to find better unit and environment, and not that ability to & # 8221;.
which is true. Now the community is a & # 8221; The pressure of the social & # 8221; In stressful environment, first joined the social young people very easy to feel the pressure from the work. Even, sometimes for no reason without cause will feel tired up.
some young people thinking about himself have entered into the society, to go to work, but also can’t wait to hope, through their own efforts, get a good job, the return of your parents, accumulated some savings, so that their buy a car, and his family.
every day so much pressure carried, in addition to go to work in a race against time to work during the heart, but don’t pass any spare time, weekends, and holidays even also is used to work overtime or sign up for some JiXunBan, to recharge themselves. Although these are positive performance, but nothing can too too hard.
narrow lane a foreign trade company in guangzhou work nearly 3 years, the market competition, competition in the industry, colleagues competition, everything is becoming increasingly intense, she felt this two years, working more than tired; And, she heard that house prices rise too much, so recently bought a house to the north of the house of 90 square metre, the pressure of the pressure to mortgage undoubtedly her head. Now, she never envy those who work for more than ten years, the family, the house, the car all work out of the man.
for a into then social three years of young people, mortgage a set of the house of 90 square metre, really a lot of pressure. Now society, the pressure of the young, are mostly from money pressure. This is like, in order to make more money, 10 tons load car with 12 tons of cargo, the car a hum moan, went up the spell is hard up, up, cut out, this can hang oneself in the half empty, AiQie to see another car anxiously from your side open in the past. Ignoring their own load overload work will only let us the loss outweights the gain. Therefore, some things, we need to hold.
of course, pressure is to promote our motivation, but
